This post is all about ways to romanticize your life!
What is romanticizing your life?
Romanticizing your life is a unique method of self-care, one that focuses on being the main character in your own story…And taking the time to notice the intricacies of the magnificent world around you.
It’s remembering to stop and smell the daisies, to wonder about the lives of the people passing by, and stargazing from the rooftops.
Life can be so invigorating when we pursue it. And since we only have one life to live, we should be collecting as many extraordinary moments as possible. If you want to add a little sparkle back into your life, this post will give you 51 amazing ideas on how you can start romanticizing your life.
1. Host a tea party
What better way to romanticize your life than to host your very own tea party for you & your besties? Find the perfect tea set and spend the morning baking cookies and making finger sandwiches for all to enjoy. It’s sure to be a hit with your friends and an activity to add a little excitement back into everyone’s life!
2. Create a morning routine
Starting your day off with a refreshing morning routine can set a positive tone for your whole day, and help you be more intentional about your mornings. Waking up early and developing an AM routine will make you not feel so rushed in the mornings before work school, or kids.
A good morning routine could look like:
-Make your bed
-Brew some coffee or herbal tea
-Stretch
-Do your skin care
-Spend a little time journaling or reading
3. Make your dream day
Make a list of things you would do on your best day ever, and treat yourself to it once or twice a year. Maybe it starts with a peaceful stroll on the beach to look for sea glass…then going on a luxurious spa day, and ends at your favorite restaurant to end the night. Whatever a perfect day looks like for you, make it happen!
4. Take a relaxing bath
Take a nice refreshing bath complete with bath bombs, bubbles, candles, and a face mask to enjoy a relaxing evening!
5. Write letters
Since everything is so automatic nowadays…Why not take some time to write a personalized letter to a friend or distant family member? Anyone would appreciate this sweet gesture because it’s so rare to receive a gift like this! Buy some pretty stationary and write a heartfelt letter to whoever is on your mind.
6. Don’t multitask
Get in the habit of taking things one step at a time instead of trying to multi-manage. When we put us all into one task, it’ll come out better than trying to spread ourselves too thin on too many things at once.
7. Use the nice stuff
Do you have items reserved for special occasions only? Fine china? A tablecloth? Fancy silverware? Why not break them out dim the lights and make tonight a special night? Just to add a little pizzazz to an ordinary night.
8. Document your journey on social media
Make videos about your life, or try writing a blog to connect with like-minded people and document your exciting journey or interests!
9. Learn a new instrument
Music is a universal language that connects with our deepest emotions and connects us. If you’ve never tried to learn an instrument before, it’s a very rewarding hobby to take up. Invest in some musical instrument lessons for an instrument you’ve always wanted to learn or check out some videos on YouTube to get yourself started.
10. Go to a fancy restaurant by yourself (and bring a book)
Treat yourself to a fancy night of dining, and be mysterious by going alone. I’m reading “The Courage to Be Disliked” by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga currently and I would highly recommend it!
- Hardcover Book
- Kishimi, Ichiro (Author)
- English (Publication Language)
- 288 Pages – 05/08/2018 (Publication Date) – Atria Books (Publisher)
11. Volunteer your time
I think one of the most wonderful things we can do in life is lend a helping hand to others in need. We may not always have money to give, but we can always offer our time. Helping others will make you feel fulfilled and warm inside, and It may allow you to meet some amazing people.
12. Collect something that interests you
What’s a trinket that you’ve always found interesting? Vintage makeup? Pez dispensers? Stamps? Whatever your thing is, start collecting it, and be on the hunt for it whenever you’re out and about.
13. Swim in the ocean
Swimming in the ocean is one way to make yourself feel alive! Peer out over the vastness of the ocean and feel the waves crashing against your body. The salt water is good for increasing blood circulation and being out in nature has a restorative effect on our minds.
14. Walk barefoot on the grass
Grounding may seem a little crunchy for some people, but there are a myriad of health benefits that come with being barefoot in nature…Including a decrease in stress and anxiety, improved immunity, improved circadian rhythms, decreased inflammation, etc.
15. Spend time in the sun everyday
Vitamin D has amazing health benefits including improving your immunity. If you’re stuck inside all day, try to make a point to spend at least 15 minutes outside in the sun soaking up as much vitamin D as possible.
16. Go to the theater
Going to see live theater is so much more exciting than watching a movie IMO. It’s exciting to watch live actors, their facial expressions, and live talent. As well as feeling the energy of the crowd around you. There’s just something special about watching a show live! Swim in the ocean.
17. Dance in the rain
What could be more romantic and poetic than dancing in the rain? I’ll wait.
18. Figure out your signature scent
There’s nothing like getting compliments for the way you smell. It adds to the effect you have on those around you, and can majorly boost your confidence level. Why not figure out that signature scent that reminds people of you and you look forward to putting it on every morning? SOL DE JANEIRO Cheirosa 62 is my go-to right now!
- This warm, sunny, beachy scent with notes of pistachio, salted caramel and vanilla conjures the happiest vibes and instant smiles – not to mention serious compliments; An iconic, forever-summer scent
- It ensures you get the best usage for a longer period
- Durable & long lasting
- This product will be excellent pick for you
19. Go to a craft fair
It’s always fun to wander around a craft fair and see the creativity of people. You may find something special to bring home, or It may even inspire you to start making something you can sell at a craft fair.
20. Take a chance on finding love
You never know what can happen in life, and you never know who the love of your life might be. Maybe it’s that stranger who caught your eye on the train home. Strike up a conversation to see where it goes. Even if you get rejected, you can say you tried and don’t have to be left to wonder.
21. Dress up just because
Dress up in that gorgeous clothing you never get to wear and go do something. You’ll be turning heads because you’ll be the best dressed in the room! There doesn’t always have to be a special occasion to dress up, life IS the occasion.
22. Hand-write thank you notes
When someone gets you a gift, it’s good etiquette to write them a handwritten thank you note. Tell the gifter why their gift is special to you, and how you’ll use it in your daily life. They’ll be grateful for the gesture, and it’s just nice to receive letters in the mail, as it’s a dying art!
23. Infuse your water
Adding cucumbers or fruit to your water is delicious, hydrating, and elegant! This is my favorite water infusion pitcher.
- SUPERIOR MATERIAL- NO WORRY FOR BOILED WATER: The pitcher is made of borosilicate glass which is lighter but stronger than regular glass, hand blown, heat-resistant and 100% lead-free and BPA free. Withstanding a temperature of 0 to 300 ℉, can hold either ice water or hot water, which is much safer and healthier than the plastic pitcher. Stainless steel lid is heat resistant and durable.
- UNIQUE BUT PRACTIAL DESIGNS: Special detachable infuser and lid, instead of taking the entire Infuser out, you can just open the lid and refill the fruit and herbs. The non-dripping spout and the ergonomically designed handle make it easy to pour and hold.
- VERSATILE- CAN BE USED AS A PITCHER: When infuser is removed, the Infuser pitcher can be used as a regular pitcher. Larger capacity can meet family or party use. No worry about the filtering parts, the lid has a strainer to prevent pouring fruit slag or ice into the drink and at the same time it also can leave tea bags or fruit pieces in the pitcher.
- PERFECT FOR YOUR FAVOURITE BEVERAGE: This pitcher is widely used for water, fruit infused water, cold brew iced coffee, iced tea, hot tea, lemonade, cucumber water, fruit soda, homemade beverages, sangria, fruit alcoholic drinks, milk, wine, cocktails, juice, etc. Not only for making fruit beverage, you can also put herbs or spices into it to make any drink you want.
- DISHWASHER SAFE AND NICE-LOOKING: The pitcher is dishwasher safe, hand wash is recommended, the width of the pitcher allows you to put your hand directly into it for cleaning. proper size for making it a practical kitchenware, but also an attractive decoration on the table when you make nice-looking beverage.
24. Consciously pursue your dreams
To truly romanticize your life and become the version of yourself you’ve always wanted to be…You have to be fearless enough to chase after the dreams that scare you the most. True growth comes out of discomfort and always pushing the boundaries of our comfort zone. Be open to learning new things, inquisitive, and open to doing what it takes to achieve your goals, dreams, and aspirations!
25. Hang eucalyptus in the shower
Transform your ordinary shower into a relaxing spa shower by hanging eucalyptus! The scent will pique your senses and will add a lovely touch to make the whole experience feel so much more luxurious.
26. Lay under the stars
There’s nothing quite like lying under the beauty of the stars on a clear night. You can enjoy the quietness of the night around you and look at the vastness of the expanse above us. Oftentimes if you stay out there for a while, you’ll witness multiple shooting stars flying across the night!
27. Frequently do random acts of kindness
It can be really fun to think of ways to make a stranger’s day. The world needs more kindness and you can be part of the solution. Buy someone’s coffee for them, leave a sticky note of encouragement, or pay someone a compliment.
28. Cook yourself healthy delicious recipes
There’s no better way to take care of yourself than to prioritize your health first and foremost. Save recipes you’d like to try as you come across them and expound upon your chef skills by picking a new recipe to try at least once a week. It’ll keep things interesting!
29. Visit an art museum
One relaxing way you can spend an afternoon is by taking yourself on a date to an art museum. Ponder the eccentric perspectives of the artists and the minute details that go into creating their art. You can sit on a bench and write about how a certain art piece makes you feel to add to the experience.
30. Strike up a conversation with a stranger
The world is filled with all sorts of people, with different stories, experiences, opinions, and imaginations. Be open-minded and talk to people when you’re out and about. There is always something to learn from every person we meet. And you never know who’s destined to be your friend!
31. Nurture seeds
Have you ever thought about how amazing it is that a tiny seed can grow to be a mighty tree, or yield fruit we can eat? One of my favorite quotes is a quote from Ralph Waldo Emerson…” The creation of a thousand forests is in one acorn”. Another cool way to romanticize your life is to plant seeds and watch them grow because we can learn a lot from the life of a plant.
32. Expand your sense of style
Why not try on some crazy things you’d ordinarily never wear? You never know what you might end up loving. People who have a unique sense of style always turn heads, and you wonder about their lives. So it’s the perfect way to add a little romance to your life.
33. Buy yourself flowers
When you do your weekly grocery shopping, be sure to grab yourself a bouquet to freshen up your kitchen. Flowers add so much life to a space, and you deserve to have flowers just as lovely as you are.
34. Recline at a coffee shop
Coffee shops have always felt romantic to me. It’s a peaceful place to get out of the house, people watch, and enjoy a change of scenery. Bring a book and enjoy it over your favorite coffee or tea.
35. Learn a new language
Learning a new language can be very challenging, but rewarding. You can learn the language of a country that you want to visit, and use it as motivation to be able to communicate with the locals when you get there!
36. Upgrade your bed
What’s more luxurious than having a majestic place to lay your head at the end of every day? One of the best ways to treat yourself is by making sure you have a bed as cozy as a cloud to get into every night. If you’re in the market for a new sheet set, these sheets are BY FAR the comfiest I’ve ever slept in!
37. Get trendy workout clothes and go to the gym
I love wearing matching workout sets to the gym. Not only do they boost my confidence level, but they motivate me to work hard in the gym. Working out is another way to romanticize your life because taking care of your body is one of the best ways to show yourself love.
38. Positive self-talk
The way we speak to ourselves matters a lot. Proverbs 18:21 says “Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.”
This means that what we speak over ourselves has far-reaching implications for how we feel day to day. Practicing positive self-talk can keep our inner critique in check and remind us of our positive qualities and growth.
39. Indulge in your senses
Sometimes all you need to do to romanticize your life is just slow down and appreciate the beauty around you. Listen to the birds chirping in the morning before you look at your phone, and smell the roses in the store. Take the time you need to notice the breathtaking details in life and the care God put into His marvelous creation.
40. Invest in some sleepwear sets
I know we all have that old t-shirt and pair of sweats we reach for at the end of a long day. But what if you invested in some fancier loungewear that makes you feel chic and comfy at the same time? Upgrading your pajamas is an excellent way to romanticize your life!
- HIGHT QUALITY MATERIAL– 95% Modal/5% Spandex.Pajama boasts a supple blend of super-soft modal jersey, Which feels cool to the touch and slips over skin effortlessly.
- DESIGN–This classi pajamas sets long sleeve ,Button Down Top with Chest Pocket,Elastic Waistline on Pant. Contrast piping details– From Classic MEN’S PAJAMAS DESIGN
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- GARMENT CARE–Hand-wash and Machine washable
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41. Sign up for a creative class
What’s something creative you’ve always wanted to learn how to do? Painting? Pottery? Flower arranging? Well, now’s the time to sign up and just do it. Learning new things is great for character development and it makes you a more interesting person in general.
42. Start an herb garden
There’s nothing like garnishing your food with fresh greens from a homegrown garden. An herb garden is easy to manage indoors, so you can replace having to always buy herbs from the grocery store. Check out this hydroponic indoor herb garden!
- INDOOR GARDENING MADE EASY: Enjoy abundant harvests year round with the AeroGarden Harvest, an indoor hydroponic gardening system that grows your favorite vegetables, herbs, or flowers in water without the mess of soil
- ROOM FOR 6 PLANTS: This compact countertop garden features a spacious grow deck and water bowl so you can grow 6 different live plants at once, all up to 12 inches tall
- HIGH-PERFORMANCE GROW LIGHT: The full spectrum 20W LED grow light with an automatic on/off timer mimics natural sunlight to help plants germinate up to 5x faster than in soil
- FEATURES AND BENEFITS: Our indoor garden’s touch-sensitive illuminated control panel reminds you when to add water and plant food, making for a simplified, worry-free gardening experience
- WHAT’S INCLUDED: The AeroGarden Harvest comes with a 20W LED grow light system, power adapter, one 3 oz. bottle of liquid plant food, and the Gourmet Herb Seed Pod Kit featuring Genovese Basil, Curly Parsley, Dill, Thyme, Thai Basil, and Mint
43. Have a glass of wine and dance to a record player
If you want to have a real main character moment, dance in your living room with some wine to some records. There’s something really special about listening to music on vinyl, It creates a unique and beautiful ambiance and somehow goes hand and hand with a fresh bottle of wine.
44. Join a book club
Book clubs are great social activity to meet new people and it can be extremely interesting to hear other people’s interpretations of the same book! Everyone comes from different backgrounds, circumstances, and lifestyles so it’s exciting to hear new and unique perspectives!
45. Go somewhere you’ve never been
If you want to keep your life fresh and exciting, get in the car and drive with no destination in mind. You never know what you might find!
46. Find things for your home that make you smile
Personalizing your space can add so much character to your home. When you’re out and about and see items that would make your home a little more homey and special to you, get them! It’s the simple things in life that tend to bring us the most joy.
47. Finish a book and leave it in the park for a stranger to find
Did you just finish a really good book? Do you want someone else to enjoy it too? Leave it on a busy park bench or somewhere someone is likely to find it, and leave a note saying it’s free for whoever wants to read it!
48. Find somewhere spectacular to watch the sunrise
Wake up before the sun does, and find a picturesque place to watch it bring forth the new day.
49. Smile at everyone
The world is in dire need of more kindness, and that’s why I smile at whoever I pass by. You never know what this simple act of kindness could mean to someone who’s having a difficult day.
50. Look at everything as an opportunity
Life isn’t always easy, but we can certainly learn so much from every situation and interaction we encounter. When we’re able to change our perspective and view life through this lens, it opens up a whole new world of opportunity.
51. Practice gratitude
One way to notice the subtleties of this beautiful life is to take some time to reflect on what you’re grateful for. Keep a gratitude journal and make a point to write down 3-5 different things you’re thankful for each day. It can help keep life in perspective when things get hard!
We only have one life to live, so it’s important to savor the beautiful moments life presents us while we can. I hope your life will be filled with cherished moments you can look back and smile about!
This post was all about how to romanticize your life!
