If you’re currently going through a heartbreak, take comfort in knowing that God is near to the broken hearted and He loves you immensely. Here are 20 Bible Verses that helped me overcome my broken heart.
Heartbreak is one of the most intense feelings we experience in life. It can be a necessary trial to face to step into the promises God has for our lives.
I know it’s not easy to let go of people we’ve put love, time, and effort into regardless of the circumstance… but the truth is that God has certain blessings in mind for you, that aren’t meant for everyone.
You’re probably here because you love people very deeply and you’re having trouble coping with the loss of this relationship in your life.
One of the most life-changing realizations I’ve had about people is this:
Not everyone genuinely loves God, and therefore cannot adequately give love to others.
I recently went through the most heart-wrenching heartbreak of my life. I had to let go of a person whom I loved dearly and who betrayed me in ways I was never expecting. I had to accept that he wanted to choose things of the world over me and he didn’t desire to truly live for God.
I outgrew the relationship because he wasn’t willing to grow with me.
While I was coping with my broken heart, I dove into the word of God and spent lots of time in prayer. The Holy Spirit showed me how to see things through His lens and I was comforted by God’s presence in ways I had never experienced before. God’s righteous right hand began to open up doors of opportunity in my life and now I am happier than I’ve been in a long time. All thanks to my Lord Jesus Christ.
So my dear sister or brother in Christ, I encourage you to allow God to become your strength. Open your heart to the amazing plan He has for you, and move forward in faith knowing that everything happens for a reason. And remember that it’s often during our seasons of brokenness that God draws nearest to us.
God’s love is our strong tower, let’s always choose to run to Him.
Here are 20 Bible Verses That Helped Me Through My Heart Break (King James Version)
20 Bible Verses That Helped Me Through My Heart Break
1. Psalm 34:18
The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.
Psalm 34:18
One thing we can take comfort in knowing is that God is near to us when we’re brokenhearted. God is all-knowing and He sympathizes with every complicated emotion we experience in life.
2. Philippians 4:13
I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
Philippians 4:13
During the times when we have no idea how we’ll get through such heartache, we can look to God to be our strength. God can see our situation from every angle and wants to help us through our healing process.
3. Isaiah 43:1
But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O Jacob, and he that formed thee, O Israel, Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.
Isaiah 43:1
It always makes me special to know that God who created everything made me the way I am for a reason. He knows all of my strengths and weaknesses, all of my good and bad qualities and He still calls me by name.
4. Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Proverbs 3:5-6
God asks us to always look to Him for understanding so we’re aligned with His will for our lives and operating in true faith. These seasons of hardship draw us closer to God’s heart and teach us how to rely on Him in ways we wouldn’t ordinarily do otherwise.
5. Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
Jeremiah 29:11
We are the apple of God’s eye and He loves us dearly. Even when the people in our lives aren’t measuring up to love us how we deserve to be loved, God always does. God has plans for us better than we could ever think or fathom, but it requires obedience and faith on our part.
6. Psalm 71:20
Thou, which hast shewed me great and sore troubles, shalt quicken me again and shalt bring me up again from the depths of the earth.
Psalm 71:20
Sometimes we bring misfortune upon ourselves through our decisions, getting involved with the wrong people, etc. Thankfully, we have a God who will be there to renew our broken spirit every time we call on Him. It doesn’t matter how many times we fall down, God is always ready to lift us back up.
7. Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the LORD thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.
Deuteronomy 31:6
In this verse, God instructs us to remain strong and confident in who He is, even in the hard times and our vulnerable moments. God reassures us to know that He is always with us and we don’t need to rely on our own strength.
8. Psalm 46:1
(To the chief Musician for the sons of Korah, A Song upon Alamoth.) God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;
Psalm 46:1
This psalm is beautiful and it describes God’s promise to be with us during times of trouble and uncertainty. We don’t need to be afraid because we always have God’s help.
9. 1 Thessalonians 5:18
In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
God has given us everything and it’s our job to be thankful in all circumstances…even when the hurt is unbearable.
10. John 16:33
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
John 16:33
God knows that this life we’re living isn’t easy, and He tells us plainly that we will have to endure trials and tribulations.
But we can be thankful knowing that we have an all powerful God fighting for us in our corner. Jesus defeated death itself through the cross and everything is subject to Him. The same God who holds the seas in His hands is the One fighting for you.
11. 1 Peter 5:7
Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
1 Peter 5:7
We need to give all our woes to God, because He’s the only one who can help us properly cope with our feelings. God’s word shows us that He loves and cares for us more than anyone else ever can. He wants us to seek Him especially when our hearts are hurting.
12. Joel 2:25
And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpillar, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you.
Joel 2:25
Sometimes we kick ourselves over the lost time, the resources wasted, and the heartbreak we endure by allowing certain people into our lives. Maybe we’ve poured all we can into a person who isn’t willing to do the same for us. Maybe the red flags were there all along and we didn’t want to accept them.
God is so gracious that He promises to restore all that was lost, and this includes in a heart break. Eventually God’s perfect timing will bring a good man that will love you as Christ loves the church and will make you forget all of this sadness you’re presently enduring.
13. Isaiah 42:9
Behold, the former things are come to pass, and new things do I declare: before they spring forth I tell you of them.
Isaiah 42:9
There are certain doors God wants to open in each of our lives, and sometimes we have to let go of habits, environments, and people to step through those doors. If you feel that God is telling you to close a door for a reason, you are so much better off listening to His words and being obedient. As hard as it is, God has more than you can even imagine waiting for you.
14. Psalm 55:22
Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.
Psalm 55:22
God wants us to go to Him with every feeling and emotion we face in life so He can help us through it. When we cast our burdens on the Lord, we relinquish our control over the situation and put it in His hands. Furthermore, when we go to God seeking help, He will pour into us everything we need to remain strong in the steadfast love of the Lord.
15. Proverbs 31:10
Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.
Proverbs 31:10
Some men just don’t understand what they have.
If the man in your past relationship isn’t using the life of Jesus as a mirror to change his own heart …then He doesn’t truly understand love and can’t properly love you. He is not viewing life through the proper lens and He cannot see how valuable you are. You are God’s DAUGHTER and He loves you.
16. Isaiah 41:10
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness
Isaiah 41:10
Isn’t it amazing to know that God is always with us?
17. Philippians 4:6-7
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6-7
Another translation says to “be anxious for nothing”. This is because faith and fear CANNOT coexist and be felt at the same time…
When we abide in proper faith, we get to experience the peace that surpasses all understanding and know that God is the master of our faith. We can always be thankful because God is working everything for our good, even when we can’t see it.
18. Matthew 11:28-30
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Matthew 11:28-30
In this verse, Jesus is inviting us to yoke up with Him and let Him guide us. We can find perfect peace when we release our heavy burdens to God and trust that He knows what we need better than we do. Releasing the situation to Him takes the weight off our shoulders and allows us to focus on having faith in His perfect plan instead.
19. John 14:27
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
John 14:27
When we have Jesus, we have access to peace and love the world cannot even comprehend. He is our ever-present help and joy when all hope seems lost. Even when we’re broken, even when we can’t understand, let us find hope in the love of God.
20. Revelation 21:4
And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
Revelation 21:4
One thing that helps me when I’m hurting is to remind myself of this verse. When it feels impossible to endure the heartache, I just remember that one day we will be with Jesus, and no longer have to endure the pain we have to experience in this life. There are immeasurable amounts of joy and peace reserved for those who put their faith in Jesus and live their lives for God.
Final thoughts:
This is the most opportune time to grow in your relationship with God and completely surrender your life to Him. If you’ve gotten your heart broken recently, remember that God is with you and He is in control.
Allow yourself time to mourn over the loss, but remember that God’s plan is perfect and He is calling you into this new season for a reason. God bless you!
